How to dress MODESTLY as a ~woman~

Publicado el 3 ago 2020
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  • So I’ve noticed many didn’t know my name or were asking if my name is actually Julia. My name is Giulia-Christina (I’m Giulia or GC to my friends and family). And Giulia is pronounced like Julia. Glad we cleared this up 😂

    • That's a strong and beautiful name Giulia, but I was so enjoying calling you "ready" . you're awesome either way

    • I was super confused about that too either way it's beautiful name. 😂

    • Ciao Giulia !

    • I'm a Cristina too UwU

    • An easy enough google search if one wants to know. That's if they've missed all the times you've had your name in a video and your place of birth. I'm about to apply for Italian citizenship and move my kid to Italy actually!

  • Does this woman lives in 1967?

  • I don't know man she's showing a lot of chest to be dressing modestly that's a deep v.

  • As someone who has been a man for a good while, I can say with some authority that her assertion we only engage with scantily clad women with "one thing on our minds" is simply false. I've found many women less sexually attractive because they choose to dress that way.

  • Is it me, or does this feel like it could be used for victim-blaming survivors of sexual assault that may not have been dressing what she'd call "modest?" Because it doesn't matter what you're wearing, you could still be assaulted.

  • Why are they always looking like their crazy or something? First Shallon Lester and now this woman.... I don´t get it.

  • Good lord that chicks video is so cringe......

  • This channel is SUCKS ! My advice to you is read the bible

  • when im 50 i hope someone says i have nice muscle tone

  • I dress "modestly" but it's simply a matter of wearing what I like, which is layers, showing accessoires rather than skin. That's my personal preference. I'm not a sexual person at all and a bit tomboy-ish in personality, so you can imagine I'm not going to walk around showing off my boobs and butt, I rather show my biceps hehe. But I do very well realize that if people want to sexualize you, they will regardless of what you wear. I've had people sexualize me when wearing an oversized labcoat (for work) so... Yeah you will get stares when you walk around half naked, but when you don't, you will still get stares cause they're fantasizing about what might be underneath. I dress for myself, but I just don't feel comfortable looking in the mirror and see someone with their tits and butt out, that's just not who I am... And not MY definition of a good style but that's a matter of personal taste.

  • 5:42 thank you

  • I thought chastity was linked to sexuality. Modesty is just being humble and, you know, just in general not overly cocky or boastful about yourself. If you dress modestly, you just don't flaunt or show off. You can still show personality through it, it has nothing to do with how masculine or femine you look... Like, if you wanna dress modestly, just maybe don't go all out gucci, prada, etc, but that doesn't mean you can't show how you really look and the body type you really have. Everyone except Jake Paul. Sorry.... I just found that funny. Uh... yeah... if I were a guy, I would probably feel at least slightly offended to be called a "visual creature". Most men don't like being called "creatures", end of. Hmm, maybe her man is a caveman too, one she's housetrained. If she has one, anyway. I dunno. If I meet a guy, I'll probably not care to make an impression on him until I somehow manage to bump into him for a twelfth time. And then I'll normally want to make the impression of "I'm not as clumsy as I look/act, I promise! Also, sorry!" Definitely don't go out of my way to make myself seem dateable because like... how do you even look dateable? Everyone's opinion on who is the right person for them is different. Anyway, my point is, that one chance thing is bulls***. "If you dress as a sex object." Unless you're wearing a costume in the shape of a dildo, I think that's pretty difficult to achieve. Also "misogynist alert, code red, mysoginist alert! We have a traitor amongst our ranks! And a sexist person." I almost thought she was defending perverts who like to ogle and sexualise woman in that way. "Oh, but it's not like it's fair on them when you're the one dressing so inappropriately. What are these poor perverts supposed to do? Avert their eyes? Maintain eye contact, not boob contact?" The tone she uses... it reminds me of a lot of incredibly conservative Christians that are experienced enough to know that maybe going around knocking on doors and spreading their message where it is not looked for is not the most respectful or smartest idea... but the moment you try to listen to their side of the argument, they'll immediately throw the entire Bible at you with ever sin you're supposedly guilty of since the day you're born and the whole thing with you being doomed to hell unless you repent... No offense to Christians. And then a third type of Giulia exists, a hybrid of the less and more skin showing Giulia's, which has more self respect and sexiness at the same time in her left pinky than Abby. To be honest though, you're more likely, as a girl, to dress for other girls. If anyone's going to judge you on how you dress, it'll more likely be the women. Abby is a great example of that. Thanks Abby. Wired. Now Abby makes them sound like robots. I mean, sometimes, I wish they were, it's easier to talk to an inanimate object than a real life being, but if anything is more likely to have a one-track mind, it's the robot. Men are much less predictable. That is what makes them both interesting and, potentially, dangerous, if they do possess more risky or dangerous tendencies, which some might do. And wearing a "modest" item of clothing isn't going to make a difference to someone who could objectify you. Besides, by dressing in more you typically leave more to the imagination, which, well... doesn't exactly discourage people, men or women. I mean, your romantic partner is often a proof that being a mixture of things is possible. Most people fall in love with their other half for more than one reason. Otherwise once you get to the part where you try to persuade them that you really do want to spend the rest of your life with them because of so and so reasons... things are gonna get pretty awkward. I mean, imagine if you had just the one reason. And your partner is sitting there, with like a million reasons, feeling dejected because apparently they just have this one trait and can't help but feel like they're at risk of losing you to someone who has more than they do... It'll be like that part in the Swan Princess where the prince has no idea what else he loves about Odette except for her beauty, which makes her question his love and reject him.... In Abby's mind, every woman's life goal probably looks a bit like so: - get married - have 2 - 3 kids, at least one of which is a girl and one of which is a boy. - have a dog. - have a cat (make sure dog and cat don't eat each other) - have a two to four bedroom house with a garden surrounded by a white picket fence. - be a housewife and homeschool your kids to avoid them getting any sinful ideas from school and the outside world... - die at the age of 82. No sooner, no later, make sure you end up in heaven or your family will disown you. (even if heaven doesn't end up existing.) - go to church every sunday. - wear pink every wednesday. - bake cookies every friday. - don't you dare put up Christmas trees in winter, those are pagan things. - be an unkissed, untouched (don't you even hug a guy before you marry him) virgin until marriage, feel no pleasure during intercourse - that is forbidden to a modest and chaste woman - and have sex only to procreate. - have exactly 36 corn pieces scattered across the two curtains hanging from your kitchen window. Not 35 or 37, it must be 36 exactly. No half corn pieces either. - have a dozen copies of the exact same day and nightwear hanging from your wardrobe. Yeah, I mean, if I made as much as their husbands did in a year, I'd probably also dress "modestly"... XD Such modest people, flaunting their thousand dollar/pound dresses, and bags and shoes that alone cost a few hundred each, at least... So... Shakira possibly made millions of people's lives just a little brighter, even if just for a while, with her songs, and Abby's comparing it to whatever success she did manage to have with her own children. Shakira's not just well-known because she's attractive looking. Her songs are uplifting, catchy and some have postive messages. Maybe not ALL of her songs are a great influence on people, but the positive influence she does have is more widespread than Abby's... so I dunno... her name may very well live on after she dies, like those of other singers/artists. Abby's on the other hand...? You're either pretty or smart, not both. Hmm... yeah, anyone could name you at least ten women that are pretty and smart at the same time, Abby. Breathe, Giulia, for a moment there, I thought you were struggling to breath thanks to her bullsh****... It was pretty concerning. "Not criticising anyone." I always saw "ladies" as confident, dignified but compassionate with wisdom and intellect. So for it to be tarnished like that, by someone who has no idea what she's talking about is just... (but then I got the idea of what a "lady" was to me from fiction, so yeah...) I mean, I'm not a "lady" myself, but what I associate with lady, is clearly not the same as what she associates with the word "lady". A lady is a role model, not a critic, not close-minded. Abby is not a lady. She's a... and you know what, let's leave it at that before my rant descents into pure chaos.

  • This judgmental diatribe could be a parody of right-wing dogma and religiosity! 'Dana Carvey's church lady' character anyone?

  • I hate seeing her face on adds

  • 🤣🤣LOVE ❤️❤️❤️The More You Know flashback, took me back to gradeschool sat. Mornings

  • As an lds convert, obviously I come from a diverse background, I'm glad you did a topic on this and appreciate your opinions on this. Not everyone who promotes modesty are fake like her.

  • I feel and share your frustration completely

  • Although my mum called me a whore once because she could see my bra strap and it was red, but I feel like that’s a her problem 😂

  • I’ve been a life model and worn no clothes at all and been happy to tell my entire family that I’ve sat naked in a room of people for hours, and they think that’s pretty cool so even the points she tries to make don’t make any sense

  • Just for all of this... why not both?

  • It’s like Abby normalizes men who blame the appearance/presence of women for their leud inner thoughts and detrimental actions. I’d say it’s a blame-the-victim mentality she believes in but it’s even more than that. But I’m glad Julia made the video because I refuse to watch Classically Abby and have been trying to get the adds blocked or removed from my front page

  • Ever since I first saw this dress modestly/conservative ad like 3 months ago I’ve been reporting it as “offensive”. Never even watched it. Don’t tell me how to live my life

  • Praised for your family has she had a lobotomy? What if you here's a crazy though what if you have more facets ? This is devolved thinking

  • Wow abbeys out look is over simplified

  • I don't have sex with women I can't have a conversation with, and with a personality I like and enjoy. Even for one-night stands. What the fuck are you gonna do outside of the ~hour you're hookin up? If you're not into her, and/or she's not into you, it's gonna be supremely awkward and irritating.

  • Man, Abby Shapiro has great crazy eyes, eh? I'd hate to wake up to that thumbnail face of hers in the morning...👁😬😳😱

  • Sexiness is NOT just about your body. To me; a wicked sense of humour & high intelligence are super sexy

  • I don't think she knows Michelle Obama is really a man aka: Big Mike

  • The way she talks about being "distracting" at the park makes it sound like she's admonishing a wedding guest for dressing to upstage the bride.

  • The issue with modesty is it is a constant sliding scale with each person you meet and there are no defined rules some would even consider some of abby’s clothes revealing because of her cleavage.

  • If my body is like Shakira’s or JLo’s when I’m 50, you’re damn right I’m going to show it off as often as I can because I have self respect.

  • Why is her face doing *that*?

  • god shes the human embodiment of "im not like other girls , im ur house object use me"

  • Girl, thank you for being so clear with your words! Unlike some people🙄

  • Im so glad someone made a video on this girl because I've gotten so many ads from her.

  • may i add... being sexy is NOT only about the body. Many people have a sexy smile, or their way of talking is sexy. I think anyone has thought someone is hot not because of their body but because of a different feature

  • She’s crazy looking like she’s got the crazy eyes lol. Also in case anyone wasn’t aware, she’s Ben Shapiro’s yeah that’s why she sucks.

  • I want to dress in my sexy goth corset and tights and tweet it at her holding my degree in biology

  • I am pretty ugly, so I don't get attention from anyone, ever. 10 years alone so far. Modesty or not, for some of us it doesn't matter.😂 And also, men aren't emotional? No, Abby's brother Beb Shapiro is not emotional. He is not the template for all men on the planet.

  • Bruh abby is just Ben Shapiro in a wig I can’t take her ass serious 🤣

  • I really hate this woman, Abby I mean, she just sounds like not even believing it. She turned up out of nowhere on trending and ads. I feel like she's fake. Either way I hate her.

  • Her general vocal inflection, especially the way she says “lady” makes me physically ill.

  • Ok sexiness is NOT just your body

  • She isnt even 'modest'- she said herself she dresses to look 'beautiful' for men 😂 This is just Pick Me behaviour.

  • I think she keeps bringing up how she thinks men react to conservative vs typical/appropriate to the situation dressers because maybe she is not confident in her own assets and worries about her husband/boyfriend looking at another female and Abby wont measure up.

  • I guess there’s old fashion beliefs and mentality still in some ppl today.

  • “who do you want to be desirable to?” myself

  • I Don't see my naked (twice pregnant self) as super sexuell, so I'm modest right 😅 she should come to Europe and join us all in the sauna 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • I know this is annoying, sorry, but just fyi you can have eternal life in heaven when your body dies no matter who you are or what you do as long as you have believed in the Son of God at some point in your life. here's how according to the bible: HOW TO GET TO HEAVEN AND HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE GOD WHO LOVES YOU AS YOU ARE? believe in the Son of God: ~John 3:16 (NIV) "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." WHAT EXACTLY DOES BELIEVING IN GOD'S SON MEAN?: accept God's testimony about his Son: ~1 John 5:10: "Whoever believes in the Son of God accepts this testimony. Whoever does not believe God has made him out to be a liar, because they have not believed the testimony God has given about his Son." WHAT IS GOD'S TESTIMONY ABOUT HIS SON? here it is: ~1 John 5:11-13 "And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life. I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life." DO I HAVE TO DO ANY WORKS? no! you are saved freely! you will go to heaven when you die now! Reference verses: ~John 6:26-29 "Jesus answered, “Very truly I tell you, you are looking for me, not because you saw the signs I performed but because you ate the loaves and had your fill. Do not work for food that spoils, but for food that endures to eternal life, which the Son of Man will give you. For on him God the Father has placed his seal of approval.” Then they asked him, “What must we do to do the works God requires?” Jesus answered, “The work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent.”" ~Ephesians 2:8-9: " For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith-and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God- not by works, so that no one can boast." ~Romans 4:2-8: " If, in fact, Abraham was justified by works, he had something to boast about-but not before God. What does Scripture say? “Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness.” Now to the one who works, wages are not credited as a gift but as an obligation. However, to the one who does not work but trusts God who justifies the ungodly, their faith is credited as righteousness. David says the same thing when he speaks of the blessedness of the one to whom God credits righteousness apart from works: “Blessed are those whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered. Blessed is the one whose sin the Lord will never count against them.”" ~Romans 3:20-31: "Therefore no one will be declared righteous in God’s sight by the works of the law; rather, through the law we become conscious of our sin. But now apart from the law the righteousness of God has been made known, to which the Law and the Prophets testify. This righteousness is given through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference between Jew and Gentile, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented Christ as a sacrifice of atonement, through the shedding of his blood-to be received by faith. He did this to demonstrate his righteousness, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished- he did it to demonstrate his righteousness at the present time, so as to be just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus. Where, then, is boasting? It is excluded. Because of what law? The law that requires works? No, because of the law that requires faith. For we maintain that a person is justified by faith apart from the works of the law. Or is God the God of Jews only? Is he not the God of Gentiles too? Yes, of Gentiles too, since there is only one God, who will justify the circumcised by faith and the uncircumcised through that same faith. Do we, then, nullify the law by this faith? Not at all! Rather, we uphold the law." Am I saved forever now? no need to worry? yep! you are sealed with the Holy Spirit! ~Ephesians 1:13-14: "And you also were included in Christ when you heard the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation. When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession-to the praise of his glory." I still find myself sinning- why? ~Romans 7:14-24: "We know that the law is spiritual; but I am unspiritual, sold as a slave to sin. I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do-this I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it. So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me. What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself in my mind am a slave to God’s law, but in my sinful nature a slave to the law of sin." -

  • If you ask me you should be wearing realtively modest clothes. Same goes for guys. We all like to make fun of guys wearing stuff that accentuates their abs and junk, rightfully so. I think it can stop you from being sexualized, but not entirely. And I would definetly have to agree that too many young girls are dressing that way. Should they be forced in a dress? No, to me just casual attire like tshirts is fine.

  • I love this video!! Excellent refutation, Giulia!!!

  • she's like a small boomer

  • I prefer to dress more conservatively and Classically Abby telling me to do it makes me want to walk around nude.

  • Okay, I was pretty much raised by my brother and he's the most important person in the world to me. So if she stereotypes men one more time, I'm gonna fucking scream.

  • I dress very modestly... Lots of layers, mostly shapeless, petticoats, the works. And it doesn't mean anything other than I like comfy clothes, am fairly lazy and hate the sun with a fiery passion. And guess what? I still get sexualized! Most days the only skin you can see on me is my neck up and hands, sometimes my neck, hands and face are covered too (gloves, face mask and scarf), no defined waist or bust... And yet I've still met people that sexualize my style. The modest, conservative preppy, cottagecore, Mori-kei, farm girl, ect... All get sexualized. When I was younger, I dressed very, VERY immodestly. I met my Husband while dressing that way, over 14 years ago. He didn't just see my body, he saw me, a fellow individual, multi-faceted human being. And would you really want a man(or woman) that has to be mentally managed to be a decent human being? Wear what you want, what you're comfortable with. Dress for yourself. And being child-free, I'd be thrilled to be praised for my body at 50+. I'd be more than happy to rip off my shift and strut the beach in a bikini after 50.

  • I just can't... how can she be conservative and belittle men in such a way? No seriously, not only is she sexist against women, but also men. Mostly towards men.

  • Maybe she would have some sort of point if "dressing modestly" actually prevented being sexualized but it doesn't. Two German comedians once made some sort of short documentary (a very serious one) where women described how they were sexualized daily and it also showed what some women were wearing when they were r*ped and this clothing went from bikinis to long evening dresses to baggy pants and sweatshirts. It doesn't matter what women wear. If someone thinks of women as sex objects, they're gonna treat them like they are no matter what they're wearing and if someone has respect for women they're gonna treat them with respect no matter what they wear.

  • I practice modesty in my life. I hate this idea that modesty is only about what you wear or that it has anything to do with how men look at you. NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT MEN

  • Weird she talks about not dressing sexy but that green dress that shows “every curve” in the pic on her wall is pretty sexy

  • in sorry but what is your pronouns?

  • Giulia, I don't care what Abbey says. You give off cool vibes no matter what you wear.

  • k abby but what if i like women

  • When one of your favorites drops the name of your other favorite

  • Classically Abby seems like a lesbian dom and I am so into it

  • What I also disliked about the examples Abby uses to describe modest and immodest women is that she ignores the fact that the average woman cannot dress like a first lady, a princess, or a first daughter. The resources these women have access to in regards to clothes, stylist, and money are not common in the everyday world and not accessible for everyday people. It made it seem like only women who were rich or had the money to dress a certain way dressed modestly. Also, her subtle jab at professions when it comes to modesty. She uses two singers, a career in entertainment, as an example of immodest clothing. Roles such as princess, first lady, or daughter (all male centered or family centered roles) are used as a form of modest clothing examples. I mean, it is obvious where her opinions were from the start of the video, but her use of class and occupation to further expand her limited view of modesty was very interesting because she really connects it to more than just clothes without directly stating that.

  • I work at two jobs and wear uniforms at both and still get hit on. I don't show off any cleavage or anything. Leaving me confused lmao

  • Shes speaking like someone cant find a personality trait sexy. I personally think funny men are sexy. A body isnt the only thing that someone can consider sexy.

  • Hey guys, very small ESmainr here! I made a video on this topic too and It’d mean the world to me if you could check it out!

  • Tell me why this woman is talking about 'modesty' when she has portraits of women showing their SHOULDERS on the wall behind her?? The school system is shook honey

  • Ok last comment. Seriously how is dressing sexy equal to competing with other women? I resent this because so many women who see this are now going to automatically assume that when they see a woman dressing sexy that shes inherently competing with them. And NO sex appeal is not just about body. and yes I do want people talking about my fucking muscle tone at 50 but why cant they talk about my accomplishments AND my muscle tone? Wtf I didnt know people could only pick one thing to talk about when they think of me

  • Shes obviously specifically jealous of shakira and j lo for looking younger then she does at 50 and 40 something years old

  • I'm not gonna listen to anyone's fashion advice who's curls are all in one direction, not brushed out and straight on the ends

  • You and your husband are a very nice couple. You speak so nicely of him, and I know that seems like a given, but it's very sweet to hear people say nice things about their partner when their partner is not present!

  • There's nothing wrong with dressing modestly, but there is when you force people to.

  • You can just tell that woman locks her car doors when black people walk near :/

  • I know it's like Julia but I can't read anything other than Ghoulia sorry 😖

  • Sure, people can wear whatever they want, but children can be practically anywhere, except clubs and bars. I think Anna Bey of School of Affluence gets the same message across, but more effectively. Dressing in a sexually revealing way is not always sexy. It can often look cheap. In the end, it depends what you want to communicate in order to achieve the goals you have. Even though I disagree with some of the points on this video, I do enjoy your content.

  • I saw Ben Shapiros sister on the thumbnail, I can't stand this person or her brother they are both idiots who are just using what's currently considered taboo to acquire attention. It's basic niche marketing and always has been, they aren't conservative just money and attention hungry. Change my mind.

  • 13:11 a "friend" i had in middle/high school told me this, unironically, almost verbatim, then called me "smart". I was smart enough to escape her, so I guess I got that goin' for me.

  • Her && Ben Shapiro are siblings...

  • I literally met my boyfriend of 2.5 years while I was working as a server at a breast-turant. He was at one of my tables 🤣 we’ve been inseparable since the night we met

  • holy shit Im a man and am actually a little insulted by the fact that she portrays my gender like a goddamn sex crazed hamster wheel.

  • Jump Cutting Conservative

  • “You’re either smart, or you’re pretty. Can’t be both!” Me: well, I’m dumb as shit and I’m just woah, super fucking ugly. 𝗦𝗼 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗮𝗺 𝗶?

  • Honestly the caveman thing reminded me of my fiance 😂 he always says he wants to take me back to his cave for some rockus love making 😂😂😂

  • Sexiness is inside too I’m sexc big brain 😼✨

  • I am literally praying that she doesnt have a daughter

    • Or a son tbh. She's definitely giving me "boys will be boys" vibes

  • My poor coworker wears a jacket everyday and we live in Florida where the heat is unbearable at times because a man said something inappropriate about her body while she was wearing a uniform that shows nothing I mean it’s a collared shirt that shows no cleavage what so ever and it’s not form fitting . so ladies wear what you want men will still find you sexy or physically attractive anyway.In conclusion be yourself wear what you want

  • Is it really about modesty or is it her own securities she's ranting about? I'm gonna guess it's the latter. In my experience (I live in Utah so I was told all this modesty BS growing up) it's the women who are very insecure about their own bodies that try to dictate what other women wear because of jealousy. I'm not saying all women in Utah, but there's a vast majority that'll judge you if you show an ankle and if a girl/ woman is raped, they say it's your fault for wearing shorts. Like, wtf? It's so ridiculous! I get hit on a lot and (gasp!) even when I'm wearing a hoodie and skinny jeans while getting groceries. I have many stories, some strange ones also, about the ways men (and women) literally run up to me just to tell me I'm pretty, they love my hair, my outfits, etc. So, my point here is, it doesn't matter what you wear, if someone finds you attractive, they're going to tell you so no matter what you're wearing. 🙂

  • Thats Ben shapiros sister

  • Her v neck a little too low, kinda sexy ngl 👀

  • Modesty and sexiness arent two polar opposites either, honestly sometimes a person can dress a little modestly and also make it look very sexy! What she's talking about is hiding youself, disappearing in the crowd, being invisible and basing your whole self worth of what your husband can accomplish

  • Everything this women says what EXACTLY what they drilled into me in catholic school.

  • Have you thought that maybe when she posted the video and the adds she marketed it as the contrary to what it is, so this would appear on your suggestions because you are living wrong and need guidance? Cuz thats definetely what i think

  • That "Lady" seems really insecure. She talks a lot about how dressing modestly is what guys want and how when you are 50 you should be praised for having a family and wisdom. That's her projecting what she thinks a woman should be ie someone who makes choices that other people validate her for. She will be much happier if she wakes up and realises that most people don't care how she lives her life. If she lives her life for her, then the people who accept her will naturally gravitate towards her. Instead she's creating an artificial world where she thinks people will appreciate her because of how she lives. She sounds like the type of woman who will get mad at her husband if there is a woman doing yoga in the park and she thinks he is looking at her, even if he's not. She reminds me of Bree in Desperate Housewives - someone who was so obsessed with being perfect, she ended up pushing people away. Julia is right - you can be both sexy and modest. It's not binary. Most people know how to dress appropriately for the occasion. I also hate how this "Lady" said you can be modest, without being frumpy. So not only is she judging people for being too sexy, she's also judging people for not putting enough effort into their appearance. She would be perplexed by me. Most of the time I don't wear makeup and would probably be considered frumpy but when I'm going on a night out or to a special occasion, I really make the effort and look like a totally different person.

  • Girl, go off. 🤦🤬

  • Shakira speaks 7 languages, has many degrees, donates so much money to people in need, is a dancer, a singer, and plays 4 instruments. She has wayyyy more accolades than this Abby but the only thing Abby is discussing is her sexiness. Tf is wrong w ppl?

  • I get her ads too what the hell?!

  • I was trying to find this comment but I couldn’t seem to Ivanka isn’t his wife 😂 It’s his daughter (much to his dismay)

  • 8:00 if I saw a girl dressed like that, I would be too shy to even look at her, and if I saw the other one, I'd be too scared to look at her and I'd avoid her at all costs. She looks like she could kill me lol